Wednesday, January 14, 2009

When do you know when it's time to let Go...?

Friends, I've known this person for 25 + years. I was there when he got engaged, married and at many other great events that have happened in his life. For the past year or so, I've called him steadily, on Birthdays, Christmas and when one of his parents died, I took some time off, drove up & helped him out by doing some needed work for him. I just don't hear from him & it occurred to me today that unless he starts making some sort of effort to continue our friendship, then it's Over. I wish I could point to something I did/didn't say or do, but I can't. Has this ever happened to you? What (if anything) did you do/not do? I'd like to know.


Amy Kate said...

I learned long ago that some bridges were meant to be burnt. And shitty though that may sound, it is true. Anyone that you can't see holding up and supporting through a rough spot: just kick them out of your life. Seriously. You know what's best for you. Go with that.

Le laquet said...

Sometimes you just have to stop all the doing that YOU do.